Actor thinks it's best to be honest
Sunday, 6 July 2008
Will Smith reckons it’s healthy to fancy other people when you're married and has no qualms telling his wife when he does.
The actor – who tied the knot with Jada Pinkett Smith 11 years ago – is determined to be honest about how he feels.
‘Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people,’ Will explains.
‘So sometimes we have the discussion: “Wow, this or that girl is freaking gorgeous”. I’m not going to say anything to my buddies that’s any different than what I say to my wife.’
And Will, 39, reckons he'll tell Jada - and she'll tell him - if they ever find they can't resist their desire.
'If it came down to it, then one would say to the other: "Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it,"’ he says.
'In our marriage vows, we didn't say "forsaking all others". We said, "You will never hear I did something afterwards". Because if that happens, the relationship is destroyed.'
But Will's not sure what he'd do if one day Jada, 38, confides that she does want to take a lover.
‘I don’t know how I’d feel,’ he confesses. ‘But I know I would react better than if I found out about it afterwards.’
The devoted couple are mum and dad to son Jayden, 10, and daughter Willow, 8.
Will - who is currently starring in Hancock with Charlize Theron - is also dad to son Willard from his first marriage.
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dear mrs brown.. need i retell you the story of Abraham ? how he was "sexing" Hagar when he was married to Sara? and God had NO problem with it? or Solomon's 700 wives and numerous mistresses? or Esther ? how she became the queen? but this whole idea is retarded... why need other people if you really love your spouse?
First of all, marriage is a covenant with GOD. If you knew GOD, you would know His word. Marriage is meant to be between ONE man ONE woman.... We need to understand that it is more important to put the other person feeling and needs before our own, then we would have a better understanding what a TRUE marriage is based on. Plus, knowing GOD's word and what He said about marriage wouldn't hurt any either !!!!!!
Yes honesty is the best policy, but so is self control and dedication to the one you love. I would not dare share my wife and there is no way in hell my wife would share me. If this were indeed true, my respect for those two young and good looking african americans have lost my respect completely. Not that they care!! LOL :-) But... No way is that the right way to live.
First and foremost the WORD OF GOD is that "marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled, but whoremungers and aduterers GOD will judge." This plainly is against the will of GOD. This why the scriptures state that "it would be easier for a camel to make it through the eye of a needle than a rich man to make it into the Kingdom Of Heaven.
I am an african woman our men cheat or marry many wifes I dont know if it makes it easy when you know the competition (co-wifes) but hell NO! am never gona let a man say in my presence thats a hot chick? what the hell? get a place to sleep that night. I RESPECTED THIS COUPLE IN WHOLE OF HOLLYWOOD thay killed my dream there is a willsmith out there (kind,sweet,respect for the partner,perfect companion) I think JADA has low selfesttem and the ''man'' as usual takes advantage
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